Violence induces illness.
Two friends of mine have a breast cancer. They were abused by their husband.
My another friend has a uterine cancer. By violence, as for them, the body and soul got damaged.
Violence does not induce happiness.
Don’t wound a favorite friend by violence.
There are those who say like this. Since it loves, a whip moves a woman. It is wrong although there are such persons.
Love doesn’t use a whip.
Regain yourself.