We should create infrastructures built like eco villages where woman old and young can come with their children to live in peace, take a rest, gain back strength and vital energy befor returning to the wild world. Thesee villages would manage themselves on their own. Almost everyone can fight except the one’s who are sick and wounded, they need a place to heal and feel safe. No one can heal while fighting. I have been working since 10 years now as a french copywriter, I am a mother of three children; in 1998 I was sent to prison after I made a hol-up. At that time I thought I had no other choice or I would lose my children. I am a well educated intelligent woman who speaks 5 languages, when people ask me how come I did such a stupid thing I answer I don’t know, probably because I was too tired and too weak to think right all I remember is thinking what ever may come I will not give up fighting. The judges were indulgent, I guess they understood. I only stayed 4 months behind those prison bars and whe I came out I could keep my children because people who heard about my misfurton came to help us. Today, I know that sometimes we are just to worn out to keep fighting the right way if we would have places to go to,not only for a few hours but where we know we can settle down in peace for long while we can built up forces in our selves and feel strong again. When we feel strong we fight without violence and without hate.