The world will be a just place when victim blaming is no longer 2nd nature to most people.
When it happened to me, MY OWN first thoughts were,
1. I was pretty drunk
2. I did go back to his
They should have been,
1. WHAT AN ABSOLUTE CUNT
2. He took advantage of me
3. He violated me
4. He had no right
5. No means no
6. The absence of no is not consent, consent is the presence of a sincere and horny YES YES YES.
No-one should have to suffer abuse or attack.
Especially not from themselves.
Blame has only one home; and that is with the attacker.