To cause harm to my perpetrator would do me no good. It would only make me as lowly and uncaring as he is. I want to be better to be stronger and to rise above his small minded and hateful views on life. If all men were made to live for one day feeling small, helpless and hopeless maybe more of them would see the error of their ways. Who is to say. I just know that for me justice is having my own home, setting a better role model for my sons and being a strong independent woman. He tried to take all that from me but I reclaimed me and have grown stronger and wiser. That is my justice.